Game of Life -Win it or loose it you have to enjoy it !!
In life,everything is a game.
From the way you dress to the way you talk. It’s all a big puzzle of pieces and moves. And like every game, there are losers and winners.
In this post I’ll show you how to always master the art of winning and how to accept a loss with class,because there are always some things that are not up to us.
So,as we’ve all experienced at least once in our life,people leave and other people come. Most of the times they do it because of them,and not because of you,and this is something a lot of us need to be reminded of,constantly. But there’s always place for improvement,right?
The basics of “the perfect ” look
There is no such thing as perfection,but there is something about some people that makes them glow. It’s their attitude,regardless the clothes or the words they use. Make sure you’re always confident, try to use “I guess” and “I think” as rarely as possible if you want to appear sure of what you’re saying. And then for the clothes,less is more,always. Catchy,small accessories will always impress more than huge things that will take away the attention from you. You need to build your own style,but your outfit doesn’t have to be the first thing someone sees in you. You’re on the first place,if someone likes you, they’ll like you anyways,even if today your T-shirt is yellow, and they don’t like that colour. Same for your make up,it has to enhance you. You don’t hide under it, it’s not a mask. The only mask you are allowed to wear is one on your soul. We all have one,and don’t you dare say that you don’t have one, I know you do.
So now that we’ve talked looks,what about the way you act?
That’s the hardest one. And it’s a cliché to say: “just be yourself” because yourself, when you’re young,you don’t even know who that is. Today we don’t even socialize anymore because of social media (but if it wasn’t for that you wouldn’t be here, so I guess it has its own advantages too). This is why if you want to mean something today you need to leave an imprint. Who cares that people play games with your feelings? You can’t always be cold,don’t make that mistake. You are allowed to be distant with the people who hurt you,but don’t just make them suffer, and don’t play with their feelings,we all know how hard it is these days to forgive.(Ourselves.)
So always be kind and don’t be mean to anyone,nor the losers,nor the winners,not even with the “players”,after all you can never know when the places could invert and you might need someone who is real. So be real, and maybe the world will stop playing. Hopefully. Someday.
Now I’ll show you two pictures:
Which one makes you feel more? The cold one or the warm one?
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